Confessions of a Former Weight Loss Coach
I used be a rather assertive weight loss coach, assisting and urging clients to follow a very strict diet. Granted, diets are often life savers and provide amazing health benefits, such as lower cholesterol and glucose levels etc. I did this successfully for over four years.
In my past I also I taught smoking cessation classes and helped smokers get off the most addictive drug known to man: nicotine. I was quoted by one client in a joking manner: “Petra rules with an iron fist.” My heart was always in the right place. After all we were dealing with addiction, a world where one thinks in “black and white” terms. I grew up in a household, where addiction was omnipresent (alcohol and cigarettes). As a counselor I was finally able do something about it and help my clients live a healthier longer life!
Diets fail when emotional eating is not addressed.
Research has shown that diets further disconnect a person from her/his internal cues to physical hunger versus emotional hunger. In contrast to all addictive substances, food is a differe altogether. We need to eat and nourish our bodies to survive. So, how do we free ourselves from using food to numb, take the edge off and cope with our emotions?
Here are some keys questions, which will help break the "eating-instead-feeling" cycle. What are you truly hungry for? What is your hungry heart telling you? That is the true path out of food addiction and food obsession.
In my counseling work I teach clients to be present with difficult feelings, to get comfortable with discomfort. As a client stated correctly: ”Feelings won’t kill us.” But do you want to go this route? Isn’t numbing easier and more doable? Sure, eating provides instant comfort. However, after you eat, you are left with the added guilt plus the original emotion, which caused you to overeat. It is an unhealthy cycle. The way out of the emotional eating cycle is to connect with the core emotion, which causes you to reach for food when you are not hungry.
Rather than pushing your feelings down, you can learn to pause and explore what is troubling you. It takes a lot of courage to take a deep dive into your emotional world. I will make sure that it'll be a safe journey so you can find the freedom for getting out of the dieting yo-yo cycle, for the rest of your life.
You can be at peace with food & your body.
Let me tech you how. I now consider myself a Self-Care Counselor. My days as weight loss coach are long gone. I now teach mothering, self-nurturing and self-compassion. It’s a longer, much deeper journey. I love what I do!
Reach out to me to schedule your initial complimentary consultation.